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BUCKET LIST 101: Bucket Lists for Dummies!

In the movie “Groundhog Day,” Bill Murray’s character eventually has a happy ending because he learned from his mistakes. He was able to keep repeating his actions until he got it right. Real life is much like that. One can actually keep-on-keeping-on until success is ultimately achieved. In fact, persistence is the most important characteristic for success. In real life, however, there are ways to “get it right” without being stuck in a time warp. One method that has helped many people, including me, to achieve really interesting, exciting, and successful lives, is the “Bucket List”(Lifetime To Do List).

It was over 30 years ago, that my stockbroker buddy recommended a program, “The Dynamics of Personal Leadership”, produced by Success Motivation Institute Inc. He knew that I was very depressed over losing my sweetheart and having screwed up just about everything I had attempted up to that point in my life. I was actually beginning to think that I might be “Born to Lose.”

In three short weeks of daily exposure to the positive message of the lessons, I came to realize that there is no such thing as “Born to Lose” and my problems stemmed from my many bad habits: drinking, smoking, over-eating, procrastinating, etc. In fact, all the famous people in history, whose stories were included in the program, failed many, many times and yet persevered to ultimate success in their chosen fields. I knew without a doubt, then, that I was OK after all, and could achieve anything I set my mind to.

Two years later, I was a candidate for the U.S. Senate, which signaled a rather abrupt change of my attitude. Although I did not win the race, losing rather badly,  just being on the ballot and doing the television interviews etc. was a success to me, and, after all, I am the only judge.

This was the beginning of my “Bucket List” of more than 100 goals. As I learned in the program, anyone who is serious about success must be working on at least 100 goals or run the risk of seriously under-achieving in their life.

Over the next 40 years, I have done such things as:

appeared on the “Dukes of Hazzard” TV show;

produced and hosted several cable TV talk shows;

hitch-hiked across the U.S.;

spent three weeks in Paris;

lived in a log cabin;

was a freelance writer in Atlanta and L.A.;

produced a concert for charity;

published a newspaper;

hopped a freight train from Indigo, Calif. to Phoenix;

jumped off a 40-foot cliff into a Colorado river;

interviewed Jimmy Carter;

became licensed in insurance, securities, real estate and mortgage brokerage;

learned to play the guitar;

played a draw chess game with a chess master;

owned a sports car, motorcycle, sailboat, sports fisherman, a house, and a motor home;

shot par in golf;

raised the money for the movie “Sharkman”;

lost 30 pounds;

quit smoking cigarettes;

broke a drinking habit;

ran-the-table at pool;

managed a bar and restaurant complex in Key West;

and bought a Success Motivation Institute franchise.

Part of my inspiration was the story in the program about a 15-year-old boy named John Goddard, who in 1939 wrote down 127 things to do in his life. By the time he was in his 40s he had already accomplished about 100 of them. His goals were quite varied. Among them: type 50 words per minute, become an Eagle Scout, visit every country in the world, milk a rattlesnake (yes, he got bitten), climb Mt. Everest, and read the entire encyclopedia. And, according to a recent article in Men’s Journal, he led the first expedition down the entire 4,160-mile length of the Nile River.

Goddard says he made his list because he heard so many old people going on and on about all their regrets over unfulfilled dreams. He vowed to never have those regrets. Now in his 80s, Goddard has expanded his original list to 600 items, accomplishing 530, so far. He tells Men’s Journal that people often ask if he ever just relaxes and has fun, but he says he’s thankful for having a blueprint. “They don’t realize that nothing is more fun than having these adventures,” he says

. In my case, if it were not for the Life List and the training from the leadership program, I’m quite sure I would not be alive today. The excessive drinking, smoking and eating would probably have done me in. Fortunately, the program helped me internalize strategies for effectively modifying habits by substituting good habits for bad and substituting a positive attitude for a negative, defeatist one.

The essence of the program is summed up by this quote from Paul J. Meyer, the author and founder of Success Motivation Institute: “Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon, must inevitably come to pass.”

You can gradually overcome the three big de-motivators of life: Fear, doubt and worry. If you “know beyond a shadow of a doubt” that you will eventually succeed, it does not make much sense to quit, does it?

Now is the time to develop the next generation of leaders, starting with yourself and your team! If you want to:


-start your own company

-explode your productivity,

-turn your company around,

-add that  “Bucket List” item you have been procrastinating,

Register for the FREE Initial Goals Counseling session with the Leadership Guru Guy at:leadershipguruguy@gmail.com

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